• Does your friend or loved one appear to be scared of their partner?
• Do they seem more anxious or withdrawn than normal?
• Does their partner/ family member constantly check up on them?
• Is their partner jealous and possessive?    
• Is their partner charming one minute and abusive the next?
• Does their partner telling them what to wear, where to go, who to see?
• Does their partner constantly put them down?
• Does their partner play mind games and make them doubt their judgment?
• Does their partner control the money?
• Does their partner pressure on them to have sex when they don’t want to?
• Are they starting to walk on eggshells to avoid making their partner angry?
• Does their partner monitor or track their movements or messages?
• Does their partner use anger and intimidation to frighten and control them?
• Have you noticed any injuries or bruises on your friend or loved one recently?

If you have answered yes to any of the questions above, or are worried about someone and want to talk about this, please contact the Safespots Team on 07873889637 or email info@safespots.org.uk 

Our support service is available Monday to Friday 10am to 4pm